Question:I'm
really interested in this guy, but I feel his feelings are no where in my direction.
Guys came, but I let them go because I don't want anyone but the one person
I feel is rejecting me. How should I deal?
Question:
Everybody in my town talks about me, and degrades me. None of what they speak
of is the truth and it hurts. I hate leaving my house for fear of being teased
or hurt emotionally. Any suggestions?
Question:
My boyfriend abuses me and I fear in saying a word to anybody. I
love him, and I can't imagine myself not being with him. He says he loves me,
and it hurts him to hurt me. I don't know what to do, and it's killing me inside,
just as much as it is killing our relationship. Please help me!
Answer: You should be
open with your feelings. Be blunt with your crush by telling him how you truly
feel. If he gives you the cold shoulder, than don't waste your time. By keeping
your eye on a single guy may lead you in losing a chance on meeting a good
guy, one that may have already came your way, or will soon come. Keep your
options open. It never hurts to try something new. Remember, don't waste your
time thinking about someone if you already know they are NOT
thinking of you!!!
Answer: People
talk either out of jealousy or boredom. Let their immaturity kick in, but
you on the other hand are a beautiful person with potential. Don't let their
words keep you from having the time of your life. As long as you know the
truth about yourself, nothing else matters. Ignore them. When they see you
drowned in negativity, it only brings satisfaction to them. Don't let it happen.
Be confident, and let nothing stand in your way.
Nothing can, and nothing will.
Answer:
You love a man, excuse me, a boy? Love doesn't
hurt you, love doesn't break you, love does NOT put you down in
anyway. He seems he has issues and can only take his actions out on you, or
has a problem, and needs help This will become a repetitive cycle: Hurting you,
saying he loves you, you take him back, and hurts you again. Nothing will change
unless you leave for good, and find somone who appreciates your company, or
get counseling. Don't hold things in. Let it out by fixing it. Love is
not painful, it is not how it is intended to be.
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